
I’ve always had a quiet soul, a gentle, giving way
Making sure that everyone was smiling through the day
I’d rather pour my spirit out and never ask for more
But I’m the one who ends up hurting, crying on the floor
I always put them first, just to be left behind
Mistreated by the ones who took advantage of my mind
ChorusBut Tonja, always remember to love yourself
Don't put your own needs behind everybody else
Always remember, love doesn't have to hurt
It's time to realize what your giving heart is worth
Learn to let go of the things that cause you pain
And wash away the past in the midnight rain
Verse 2I look back on the moment that changed my whole world's view
The day I became a grandmother, a love so pure and new
Holding that little miracle so closely to my chest
I felt a kind of peace that put my weary soul to rest
It showed me what a healthy, honest love is meant to be
And now I need to save a little bit of that for me
ChorusSo Tonja, always remember to love yourself
Don't put your own needs behind everybody else
Always remember, love doesn't have to hurt
It's time to realize what your giving heart is worth
Learn to let go of the things that cause you pain
And wash away the past in the midnight rain
BridgeI’m taking back my spirit, I’m drying up my tears
Releasing all the heavy weight I carried through the years
A kind and caring woman deserves to be adored
I'm closing up the doors where I was constantly ignored
Final ChorusOh Tonja, always remember to love yourself
Don't put your own needs behind everybody else
Always remember, love doesn't have to hurt
You finally realize what your giving heart is worth
You're letting go of everything that caused you pain
Stepping in the sun, walking out of the rain